"And the things that you're afraid of, like the things that you would define failure as, which is like, I'm not going to meet the, I'm not going to meet my goal. That is, that is an inevitable outcome. Like we are absolutely going to fail. Like either you're going to fail because you gave up or you never tried and you used to get the failure by default. You're going to have to live with that or you're going to try something. And maybe you, maybe you knock it out of the park this time. And that's great. Good job. You're lucky. But the, the reality of it is more often than not, you're going to have stuff that didn't go as planned. It's not going to go as good as you would have hoped. You're going to have to learn and adjust."