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atlashqfamilies.bsky.social @atlashqfamilies.bsky.social
Jul 7, 07:06 PM

The loop nobody means to start: kid struggles, you rescue, kid learns they need rescuing. Repeat. It feels like love. It quietly teaches them they can't. How do you break it? #AtlasHQ #ConfidentKids

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"It is the moment your child says, I can't and means it. Shoulders down, eyes wet, certain they are just bad at the thing. You have seen it at homework, at practice, at the table. It is not weakness. It is a wall every kid hits."

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atlashqfamilies.bsky.social @atlashqfamilies.bsky.social · Jul 6, 05:00 AM

The loop nobody means to start: kid struggles, you rescue, kid learns they need rescuing. Repeat. It feels like love. It quietly teaches them they can't. How do you break it? #AtlasHQ #ConfidentKids

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